Co-dependency & BoundarIES
Teletherapy for Co-dependency
Co-dependence may cause feelings of shame, anxiety, grief, and depression. It may cause relationships to feel insecure or strained. Would you like to start living a life that feels more balanced with treatment for co-dependence availability through Teletherapy? Treatment methods are current and evidenced-based to ensure quick and effective treatment available for healing from co-dependency. Teletherapy services are designed to treat co-dependence and support your wellbeing in an online counseling environment from the comfort of your home.
Symptoms
Co-dependency is often marked by feelings of confusion and loneliness as one gives their life in the service of others but feels betrayed and alone. They often work in helping professionals and are perceived as strong, capable, and intelligent. However, the struggle with co-dependency often leaves a person feeling alone, guilty, and exhausted from working hard to please others.
Symptoms:
Worn Out
High Control
Perfectionism
Rescuing
Poor Boundary Setting
Guilty Conscience
Difficulty with Emotions / Vulnerability
Lonely
Origins
Needs are often unmet in childhood in which person a person is rewarded for responsibilities beyond their current development level. They may need to take on care-giving or parental role in order to receive affection or avoid neglect or abuse. They may feel good about these contributions to the family and thus patterns of overachieving and undervaluing self begin to take root.
The person may develop a pattern of perfectionism or control in order to meet the demands of their current environment. Trying harder and harder to measure up, the person often struggles to feel valued, accepted and loved. They may in turn try to control others in order to reduce feelings of anxiety and/ or abandonment. They may find satisfaction in helping others to the point that it is difficult to know their own needs. They tend to take positive traits, such as loyalty and altruism, to the extreme until they are worn out and left out. There is an unmet need for safety and security that is often unrecognized.
positive traits
Creative
Loyal
Focused
High Intelligence
Strong Ambition
Resilience
Treatment of Co-dependency
There are commonly co-concurring conditions of anxiety, depression, panic, trauma, eating disorders, and grief that are treated as well. TruCourage looks holistically and aids clients in healing fully from issues associated with co-dependency and boundary setting. Contact us today for support!
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